5 ways to mature adulthood

i ♥ doodling. i doodle when i'm upset, i saw some nice quotes, wanted to get motivated ... found this in the doodling pad i have last week thought it would be quite meaningful to share with you guys - 5 ways to mature adulthood.


#01 avoid blaming past

things happened. there's no point to stand still there feeling regret and upset about the mistakes already done. why not, look for another alternative way and go ahead. life is full with choices and different choices you take, lead you to different you, you will be. am learning not to spend too much time, act like a sober in some mistakes i made. i love to express my feeling but not always your closed one available for you all the time and sometime i just don't wanna burden them with my -ve thought i might have, doodling helps me move on :)




#02 remember you can't be liked at all of the time

hehe :D am learning hard for this. i perceive strongly how people think & feel about me most of the time. i will get emo and upset if i feel doesn't go as what i wish which i seriously need to not to be. emo will only make my life difficult. learned from current issue faced, guess am too emotional attached to one thing and when thing doesn't go the way i want to be, i become emo and i can't stay focus. no way, if am my way to mature adulthood. thanks boss for all the supports, never feel disappointed by me and all the chances given *appreciate*




#03 don't expect to get everything right


i hate uncertainties. yes i am. you will never know how much i hate bout uncertainties, i can get really really upset and become cave-woman hiding in my own little world when thing doesn't get the way i want. now, am better. try to think positive, i know i went through a lot of heart breaking, backstabbed, mistrust bla bla bla you name it, but without all these, my life will be just a plain white paper, correct??! i believe God always have something better for you so don't get too upset when things happened




#04 try not to feel responsible for other people all the time

hmm what i would say? never think you are a savior all the time cause you will never be :)




#05 push yourself


whether you believe it or not, i will never compete with anyone but myself. if you are friends of mine, you will know how i am. hmm i know i need to slow down my speed but i just can't. i always push myself to be a better person, maybe you will feel tired for me but this is how i lead my life. no worries, am enjoying, i have targets for myself, once i make it, is a great accomplishment for me, and that kind of satisfaction is unexplainable. try it and you will know


hope you guys enjoy some simple thoughts i have bout life ♥


p/s: jess darling is back! it's 6pm now, can't wait for tonight girls out! 


happy weekend to all of you ya!!~