No worries, I can proudly tell you all out there now, "I'm getting better (be it the situation I'm in now or my sick) and I will getting even more better & stronger". I should stay focus with what I have planned and keep going; stay positive! All I'm facing now, and what I will facing in the very near future are obstacles to make me stronger. God is testing on me, can't be giving me things I want so easy then I will never learn to appreciate it.
I'm really better after this round of sick. I felt bad for throwing tantrum to my family, simply because I'm stressed up. Geez I'm still very low in emotional control :(
I have few tips to share when you feel you reach the bottle neck in your life:
1. Let it be. When comes to a situation that you can't change anything, just let it comes and deal with it. Think this way, after all, it is just making you more stronger.
2. Talk to family members & friends. Make sure you talk to one that positive not the one that will agree with all your negative thoughts, else you will be just drown by all those negative thoughts. Thanks my mommy, she is really a great friend of mine, she spent hours to comfort me, listen to me, make sure I'm fine here, take all tantrums I threw ... brainwashing me with lotsa positive possibilities. [I was wondering am I so emo and negative all because of 2012?? hahaha!]
3. Don't eat to destress but do something make you sweat like hell. Serious, it worked! I'm kinda hygiene freak, been busy till no time to wash the toilet. I'm sick and this morning I woke up by 6 to clean the house & my room, changed new bedsheets and washed toilet; after that I really feel release ... I sweat a lot a lot too!
4. Try to control yourself to speak out something one second later, it may make a big change. Hehe! I'm not sure bout others, but me, I will lost control scolding people and saying out words hurt when I'm stressed up *shy*
5. When you can't get things this way, change your way. This is what I believe, if you stay focus, you will always get to where you want; if you met any obstacles, just change your way, you will still getting where you want if you stay focus enough.
6. Treat yourself extremely good. Like what I will do, I will do pedi mani, changing nail color like nobody business. Know why? Cause you just throw those problems behind your head and focus doing one thing, it will help to lessen your tense.
7. If you really really really unhappy with current situation but can't change anything; maybe I can suggest you to go to change a new look. Yay! I just have a new hair cut ;) [can you imagine how stressed up I am now? hahaha!]
Oh gosh, my darkcirles ... I know this is what you gonna say when you saw the picture. And I gained weight too :( Stay tune for my Special K 2-Week Challenge that starting tomorrow. [Wish: I can drop a jean size!!!]
Be patient with more updates on Special K 2-Week Challenge ya; and of course other exciting THINGS =)
